Optimism (motto) ●The wind is blowing the sky and the waves are starting, just smile and don’t have to worry ●When the sun is missing, there is a moon ●Treat difficulties as routine, and take dedication as happiness ●When the sky falls, you will catch the skylark●Hundreds of people There will always be sunshine when the weather is cloudy or rainy. ●A horse must find his way to the front of the mountain, and a boat will naturally be straight when it reaches the bend. ●Optimistic people are not old even after their teeth fall out. ●Optimism makes people live longer. ●If there is no light in the east and light in the west, where can there be darkness in all directions? There will always be a rising tide in the dynasty ●Those who sing loudly will scare away disasters and misfortunes ●If the sky falls, a tall person will stand up ●Human planning can defeat the sky, and people can defeat the sky with cleverness ●If people are optimistic, everything can be done resistance. ●Nature governs heaven and earth, presiding over people ●Heaven can create creatures, but cannot distinguish objects; earth can carry people, but cannot govern them ●Life is short, even that cannot stop us from enjoying the fun of life, let alone make us suffer from it Full of hardships and thankfully short.
Answer’s Supplement 2009-08-06 16:54 Deng Xiaoping had a very lively and cheerful personality when he was young. He worked in the Hutchinson factory in France amid the difficulties and hardships He was still able to maintain an optimistic mental state, which he maintained throughout his life. (Can be used for topics such as "optimism")
When Franklin was 23 years old, he wrote his "Epitaph": "Benjamin Franklin, a printer's body is here Sleeping forever. Like the cover of an old book, the table of contents has been torn off, the letters and gilding have peeled off, his body will decay, but his works will last forever, he is convinced that his works have been edited and revised by the editor. , will be released again with an updated and more beautiful version." An open-minded and confident image appears on the paper. (Can be used for topics such as "open-minded", "optimistic", "confident", "life and death")
Liu Yuxi, a politician and writer in the Tang Dynasty, once participated in Wang Shuwen's "Yongzhen Reform". After the reform failed, , he was demoted to other places for many years, but he stuck to his integrity and maintained an optimistic spirit. "Thousands of sails pass by the side of the sunken boat, and thousands of spring trees grow in front of the diseased trees." He firmly believes that new things will definitely defeat decayed things. (Can be used for topics such as "integrity" and "optimism")
Additional comments from the reporter 2009-08-06 16:55 Optimistic Dongpo
If you are confident that you will live two hundred years, you will be the best. Hit the water three thousand miles.
When the waves of history rush towards us like lightning, have you ever seen the highest wave - a three thousand foot wave? That is the mature wave of Su Shi's optimistic life for two hundred years, the wave that stirs the heartstrings.
How many times have my blood boiled, how many times have I silently chanted "Maturity is a kind of bright but not dazzling brilliance, a kind of round but not harsh sound, a kind of life that no longer needs to observe the appearance of others. The calmness of color, the atmosphere that finally stops complaining to the surroundings, the smile that ignores the noise, the indifference that washes away the extreme; the thickness that does not need to be announced, and the height that is not steep." This is Su Dongpo's maturity and his loneliest and most abundant harvest in Huangzhou. Because of this, his name resounds loudly in the land of Huangzhou; because of this, his poems have been flowing on the Yangtze and Yellow Rivers for a long time; because of this, he, the layman of Dongpo, has been famous in history. Among the waves, Zhongxiu is the only one who is unique.
"Don't listen to the sound of leaves beating through the forest, why not whistling and walking slowly. ... There will be no wind or rain or sunshine when I return." Oh, who can compare with him in this leisurely way. "It doesn't matter whether it's rain or shine", he doesn't care how the wind and rain of life hit him. What he has is his ability to "stick to the mountains and never let go" - a mentality that is beyond the world. Once, a kind of loyalty and unparalleled ambition to take the world as his own responsibility accompanied him from the official position to the Minister of Rites. During this period, he dedicated his whole life to serve The country prospered and eliminated disadvantages. However, the villain's jealousy changed his fate. After all, he was a scholar and was timid. When the officials of the imperial court went to arrest him, he hid in the house and did not dare to come out; he suffered all the humiliation and torture in prison. Even though he was demoted to Huangzhou, Su Shi was still Su Shi after all. He learned from the pain, "Who can drink wine to comfort me?" I am bored and depressed now, but fortunately there are three hundred songs of Qingxi River, which I send to Huangzhou without saying goodbye. "That's all. However, God seemed to want to test his will and test the so-called "real gold is not afraid of fire", so he "the whole family occupied the river post, the desperate situation was broken, hunger and cold were multiplied, and there was no one to express condolences to." , it is really "a big dream in the world, and there are many cold autumns in life". I wonder if there is anything worse and more tragic than this? I think Qu Yuan was only exiled a few times, but after all, he still had friends to support him, but he, Su Shi, was "Wandering in the mountains and rivers, mixed with woodcutters and fishermen. He is often pushed by intoxicating people, and he is often too happy to be recognized by others. I have no friends in my life who have even spoken to me, and if I have written a letter, I will not reply. I am lucky enough to be spared. "As for the ending, Qu Yuan couldn't help the unbearable loneliness and jumped into the Miluo River. As for Su Shi, after "starting but looking back, there are those who hate no one" and happily realized that "the Yangtze River is surrounded by beautiful fish, and the bamboos are like bamboo shoots in the mountains." fragrant. "Truly worthy of a generation of masters, just as he has to "hold the copper pipa" to sing "The great river eastward is swept away by the waves, and the romantic figures of the ages" are magnificent, and he also has the atmosphere of "the breeze on the river, the bright moon in the mountains", "heard by the ear" "When you hear it, it becomes sound, when you encounter it, it becomes color", the willful and vigorous masculinity of "inexhaustible, inexhaustible".
In the face of such a personality, any language loses its Its rich connotation and denotation do not need to be decorated with any language. It is luminous in itself, shining brightly on China.
We stand today, 900 years later, and see the high tide of history accompanied by Su Shi's personality. Poems are pouring in. Although we cannot touch the eternity engraved in history, we can still feel the righteousness, unyieldingness and unparalleled optimism. This is our eternal pursuit! We are no longer in that era of being demoted, and we don’t need to have the courage to appreciate the harshness of the world. But in life, we may still have too many helplessness. At this time, think of Lay Buddhist Dongpo, compared with his misfortune. With helplessness, what else can we say? Open your heart, let the wind listen to your voice, and let the rain wash your will. After thousands of times, all the misfortunes and helplessness will turn into a series of ripples. , then it spreads to the depths of your heart and is engraved on your mind. This becomes your personality and your wealth. Supplement from the reporter 2009-08-06 16:57 Su Dongpo - a famous writer in the Song Dynasty
He has experienced ups and downs in officialdom and always maintained an optimistic temperament. When he was happy in life, he could build a Su dike and create a generation of painting style; The most famous saying is that he will become a romantic figure through the ages. Just as he said himself: "I can accompany the Jade Emperor, and I can accompany the beggars of Beitian Courtyard." "
Wang Meng - a famous contemporary writer
Wang Meng said to himself that in that chaotic era, he did not go crazy or commit suicide because of his "incorrigible optimism." There are friends Asked what he had done during his 16 years in exile in Xinjiang, he replied: "I studied Uyghur as a postdoctoral fellow. I spent two years as a preparatory course, five years as an undergraduate, three years as a master's student, three years as a doctoral student, and three years as a postdoctoral fellow. , isn’t it a full 16 years? "
Edison - scientist, inventor
In the process of searching for filament materials, Edison did 1,200 experiments and failed 1,200 times. Others said to him: "You have already I have failed 1200 times, do I still want to continue? Edison said: "No, I have not failed. I have discovered that there are 1,200 materials that are not suitable for making filaments." ”
The success code of an optimist:
1. Always maintain positive expectations for the future.
Having confidence and expectations for the future is the core of an optimist It is a characteristic that allows optimists to deal with the world in a different way, seeming to realize their ideals and ambitions just by letting nature take its course.
Whatever you expect the future to be, it will turn out. This is called the Pygmalion effect in psychology, or it can also be called a "self-fulfilling prophecy." The reason is not mysterious. When a person expects a certain result, his attitude, thinking and behavior will be affected. He will think and act in a way that is conducive to the realization of the goal.
2. A problem-solving approach.
From the beginning to the end of something, optimists always adopt active coping strategies and face each problem head-on. Failure does not mean failure to them, but just a new problem that needs to be solved. They will try their best to search for all kinds of information and try their best to find a solution. They will not easily say "It's over! It can't be done." thoughts.
This is not true. Someone has done such an experiment. Show the optimists and pessimists the same cube composed of a pile of plates of various shapes, and tell them that the cube will be dismantled in a while. The task of these subjects is to reassemble the scattered plates into a cube. No time limit. The experimenters did not tell these subjects that this was actually a problem that was unlikely to be solved. The pessimists gave up in less than twenty minutes, but the optimists never wanted to give up and asked for more time. Finally, the experimenter asked them to stop and asked them how much time they needed. They said that they must put it together successfully before stopping, no matter how much time it takes.
When people believe that something will be successful, they are likely to persist in doing it. Only by persisting in doing it can success be possible. Optimists are this kind of people. Their expectation and belief in success make them always think about how to achieve their goals, and perseverance in solving problems that keep appearing is their best path to success.
3. Actively deal with setbacks
Among the successful psychological mechanisms of optimists, the most remarkable thing is the way they deal with setbacks.
Let’s assume a situation like this: You unfortunately encounter a robber at the bank. What’s even more unfortunate is that the robber fired a shot, hitting you in the arm. We set -3, -2, -1, 0, +1, +2, +3, corresponding to seven levels from "very unfortunate" to "very lucky", and then let optimists and pessimists rate this event as lucky respectively. Or an unfortunate grade. Pessimists mostly give this matter a score of -3 or -2. They think this is really unlucky. And some optimists, would you believe it, they gave this a +3 score because they felt, "The bullet could have killed me, but it only injured my arm, which means I can still fight it"; "How lucky it is that the bullet didn't hit the head. Maybe you can write a manuscript about it and earn manuscript fees!"
The way of thinking of an optimist is so different that when bad things happen, , they always think of the positive side, or the worse situation than this. Therefore, optimists can always maintain a positive attitude and always look forward to a happy ending.
"I failed to get into that key university, but I think the current school is also very good. I met my girlfriend here. If I hadn't failed the college entrance examination, I would have missed her!"
p>"I couldn't go abroad in the end. It doesn't matter. This way I can stay with my parents and honor them."
"I finally got promoted, but the company went bankrupt. During that time, I seriously considered my career plan and chose my current job. I am doing better than before and I am very happy!"
Failure, bad luck, setbacks, in optimism It seems that it has become an opportunity for them to achieve more success and a better life in their lives.