As the saying goes, "Haste makes waste", and "You can't eat hot tofu in a hurry", which means that many things cannot be done in a hurry.
We always go too fast and forget why we set out. When you speed up and rush forward, your body will gradually become overwhelmed and your mind will become more and more tired. If you don't adjust it, you will gradually feel discouraged and lose your enthusiasm for life.
Letting yourself slow down is not giving up, but accumulating.
In the poem "Leading a Snail for a Walk", we seem to see ourselves who are anxious, and we also see the snail being pulled "quickly, quickly".
As parents for the first time, we always want to give the best to our children. Likewise, we also hope that they can grow into what we want them to be.
Therefore, in order to prevent our children from losing at the starting line, as parents, we hurriedly started prenatal education and early childhood education. We also began to learn the cultural knowledge of elementary school in kindergarten, and so on, from elementary school to elementary school. By high school, children are constantly making progress and have become learning machines. As a result, my daughter said, "My childhood was all about answering questions and nothing else."
Academic performance is important, but to stand in society, one needs not only grades, but also the right way to behave. Attitude and optimism.
All things grow according to their own laws. Children should also be like this. When it's time to play, play happily; when it's time to study, learn in a down-to-earth manner; when it's time to do housework, let him try and make mistakes; when it's time to make friends, let him go. When the time comes, stop following around.
Just like a pony crossing a river, whether it is deep or shallow, you have to wade across it yourself.
Wait for a tree to bloom, wait for a cloud to come, wait for your child to grow up slowly, let him rejoice and cry to his heart's content, and constantly derive his own life experience from trial and error.
What you have to give is a variety of constructive opinions, rather than trying to encourage others or imposing your own wishes on your children.
In our life, we will meet many people. Some people just pass by in a hurry without leaving much impression; some people are like a tornado, coming and leaving suddenly, but they are so destructive that they rip out their hearts, lungs, and empties. Everything was gone, and in the end, only a mess was left.
Having experienced the separation and reunification of emotions, and being betrayed by the person you love the most, you no longer have any illusions about love, just like a hedgehog, with vigilant spikes growing all over its body, making it impossible for people to approach. .
We don’t want to accept anyone anymore. In fact, we can’t let go of the hurt in the past and the person in the past.
But life is about losing and gaining at the same time. Hayao Miyazaki once said: "Life is like a moving train. When the person accompanying you is about to get off, even if you are reluctant to leave, you must be grateful and wave goodbye.
Only completely After sending away the person you don't love, you will gradually understand what kind of person you want when you try to get out of this mud.
You will eventually gain something. When you gradually become a better version of yourself, when you have let go of your prejudices about emotions and life, and deeply mark each day with your own, gradually it will become a landscape of its own. .
You must believe that there is someone who will love you over the mountains and ridges. From then on, you will also have a embrace that can be willful and coquettish, and you will become hypocritical and start loving the lover around you again. All kinds of expectations.
All of this is because the other party has given you the deepest love, and the rest of your life will be happy.
The sword is sharpened, The fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.
Born in a poor family, if you want to change your destiny, you have to work hard step by step. Perhaps, your parents are farmers with their faces facing the loess and their backs facing the sky. In the land, the flowers of wealth have never bloomed for generations.
But when we can change our destiny through reading, a huge turning point in life is in front of us.
Someone. It is said that the hardship of studying is the most indescribable of all hardships. As a person who came from a farming family, I understand this deeply because the opportunity to go to school is very rare. , so the words of my parents are: "If you can read, you can borrow money; if you can't read, just go home and farm." " always makes us feel like we are stuck in our throats, and we desperately want to escape.
But jumping out of the farm is only the first step. Only when we got a "formal" job like others did we realize , and he is a person with nothing.
No matter how outstanding his ability is, he will always be the one who does the most and gets the most criticism when he is still young.
These are the people who are looked down upon. , being maliciously excluded is like a whip, constantly beating oneself, doing things that others disdain to do, suffering hardships that others are not willing to endure, relying on more than ten or even decades of "sitting on the bench" to practice With his irreplaceable ability, he finally gained a foothold and felt proud.
Success in a career is like rice porridge simmered over low heat. What matters is that it is cooked thoroughly. There is no need to compete with others for a moment, and there is no need to care about others' contempt or ridicule. Just follow your own path and persist to the end, and you will eventually gain success.
In life, don’t move too fast. Things are constantly changing. You have to learn to take one step at a time and adjust your direction in a timely manner.
Only by taking your time can you think more carefully, make the process more perfect, and make the ending more exciting.
So, when you are in a hurry and are so tired that you have lost your fun, you might as well slow down, carefully appreciate the beauty of every moment, continue to encourage and hint yourself, and your blessings will become more and more abundant. The more.
Author: As light as the wind and as light as the clouds.
Your happiness is my blessing.
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