I'm tired, Peter Trey. My aunt's consideration for his gold won't last forever. Climbing up the high mountain ridge, the horse's legs are already soft and confused. Fill my glass and keep me away from my inner sadness. I'm sorry, but I'm sorry I'm so tired, why bother! "Women are also working, but the women in this article are not as focused as Guan Yu and Ge Tan. They are depressed and slow-moving, and obviously absent-minded. Why? It turns out that I missed the person in my heart. After thinking about it, the woman simply threw away the basket and went crazy alone on the side of the road. After a gust of wind, the white flowers of auricularia auricula swayed with the wind, as if to break free from the bondage of stems and fly away like dandelions ... Who can you tell except yourself about your inner bitterness, bitterness, feelings and imagination?
They still have hope of waiting, and those women abandoned by their husbands can only leave with sadness and unwillingness. "Meng" is the leader of the abandoned wife poems in The Book of Songs. The heroine in the poem recalls the sweetness of love life and the pain of being abused and abandoned by her husband after marriage in a very sad tone, which is touching and makes people cry. "Mulberry has not fallen, its leaves are fertile. In the nest, there is no mulberry; I am a girl, so I don't have to worry about it. The anxiety of scholars can still be said; You can't say a woman is worried. Mulberry fell, yellow, and fell. Self-pity, poor three years old. Qishui soup, curtain skirt. Women are unhappy, and scholars do their best. Scholars are also extremely useless, and Germany is also two or three. " . "Before the mulberry leaves fall, their leaves will flourish", using moist and bright mulberry leaves as a metaphor for a woman's beautiful face. "Mulberry has fallen, but it has fallen yellow", which is a metaphor for women's haggard and abandonment with the withered and yellow leaves of mulberry leaves. "In xi, where pigeons are picked, mulberries without food; If you are a woman, you will have nothing to do with literati, and then you will say, "Don't eat the mulberries of pigeons to revive the next sentence." The advantage of The Book of Songs is that it is often beyond people's reach and enlightens people. We are used to comparing the poison of pigeons to love, and treating infatuation without regret as drinking pigeon wine with a smile. In the Book of Songs, mulberries are used as a metaphor for love. Mulberry is sweet, and turtledove is easy to get drunk when eaten too much; Love is beautiful, and people who are too infatuated are easily deceived. As for the last few words: "I am a girl, so don't worry about the scholar." "The anxiety of scholars can still be said; You can't say you are a woman. " A man who is addicted to love can still be freed. Once a woman falls in love, she can't get rid of it. From green mulberry leaves to yellow mulberry leaves, it not only shows that women are getting older, but also implies the passage of time. It is generally believed that women get married for three years, but there is another explanation: "three years old, many years." According to' three' is an imaginary number, and there are many words, actually not three years. "No matter what kind of explanation, women can't be old-fashioned. In fact, that is to say, women are too busy to get old before men get old, so they are lazy. The relationship between husband and wife gradually broke down and eventually broke down. The woman had to get into the car again, cross the ice water and return to her family. She thought it over and over again, and she was not wrong, but men's "two virtues." "Here, women look back on their married life in a reflective tone, looking for the reasons for being abandoned, and finally get a lesson: in a man-centered society, there are only spoony women and heartbroken people!
The experience of women in Meng truly reflects the contradiction between love and etiquette in society at that time and the oppression of women by husband's power. At that time, women were bound by ethics. Once they leave men, they are condemned and die without illness. So even if this man is useless, he seems to have a fig leaf in front of people-you are a wanted woman after all. Because of this, we can understand why women at that time would rather live with a man as an dissatisfied wife than divorce as an abandoned wife, and once divorced, it would be like a life-threatening event. Fortunately, this woman didn't submit to humiliation, didn't look down on her eyes, didn't just feel sad and regretful. Instead, she said, "I don't think about it." -Our relationship is over because you changed your mind. She died decisively, how strong and strong she was. As Bai Juyi said, "It's a pity for a gentleman once, but it's a pity for a concubine for a hundred years. If you say you are stupid, be careful not to treat others lightly! "
"Feng Wei went back? As can be seen from the description in the poem "Shuo Ren", Zhuang Jiang was born noble and beautiful, but the fate of such a noble and beautiful woman after marriage is indeed quite tragic. " "Preface to Mao Poetry" said: "Shuo Ren", Jiang Ye. Duke Zhuang was confused by his concubine and arrogant. Zhuang Jiangxian didn't answer, and eventually he had no children, worrying about the people. "Zhuang Jiang didn't get Wei Zhaogong's favor after marriage, because Zhuanggong preferred Xinyan's concubine, and Zhuang Jiang didn't have a chance to serve her, so she didn't have children. In the society at that time, a woman was not favored by men and had no son. No matter how noble her birth is and how beautiful her appearance is, she is just a man's artifact in a society centered on monarchy and male power. Whether she can be spoiled or not is the key to their status, fate and even their right to live. Zhuang Jiang's tragedy also shows that polygamy is very common in the harem of vassal states.
Because of polygamy, there is competition between women, so women use various methods to please men, and the result is likely to violate the "women's morality." In the Book of Songs, we can see that "when it is displayed", "philosophers become cities, and women become cities. A wise woman is an owl and an owl. A woman's tongue is very long and has a high status. Bandits fell from the sky and were born of women. Bandits teach bandits, which is a female temple. " A wise man can start a business, and a talented woman can mess up state affairs. That clever woman makes a strange noise like an owl. She is talkative and eloquent, causing evil and burying disasters. Chaos did not come from the sky, but was born from this woman. If the king doesn't listen to advice, women will keep their promises. In the first month, the phrase "Zhou Zong is famous, praise and destroy it" also expressed the same idea. The king made a mistake because he was partial to his concubine. Such a woman is a demon, so she can confuse men. So a woman without virtue becomes a "femme fatale". It is a woman's sorrow to blame the country's demise on her beauty.