As much as you cherish a relationship, you will be reluctant to leave it.
Alumni graduates and close friends go their separate ways. Parents and children also watch each generation leave and look forward to getting together again and again.
There is a saying that goes well: breakup is the norm in the world, and we are not an exception.
Everyone has their own reasons for not being able to stay, and it is the best agreement to meet again later.
The mountains and rivers are different, and the sky is on the same side
Wang Bo said that parting is like weeping and ecstasy, "On an autumn moonlit night in Jinting, who can see weeping and leaving the group"; Wang Zhihuan said that parting is like a willow that cannot be climbed, "Recently, The pain of climbing should be due to the many partings";
He Zhizhang said that parting is a result of the vicissitudes of human life, "I have been away from my hometown for many years, and recently people have been half wasted"; Cen Shen said that parting is the worry of the family, "We will meet again soon without paper and pen, Please send me your message to report peace."
The ancient poems often describe the scene of parting, and they are all depressed. They are reluctant to leave when they are about to take exams and take office in a foreign land, and they are reluctant to leave after seeing off guests thousands of miles away.
Because at that time "the mountains and the sea were not flat", going out was tiring in boats and carriages. Once we were separated, it was a relief to spend the months like years. When we meet again after a few years, we "laugh and ask where the guest came from."
That’s why parting in life is as heart-breaking as parting in death. From then on, we are separated in heaven and earth.
The environment is difficult, but it makes this friendship strong. It was not my intention to say goodbye. I hope you will take it more seriously.
Meet each other seriously and say goodbye properly
The pain of parting is exactly what makes the touching feeling of meeting again.
We have long said goodbye to the history of slow travel and short text messages. Nowadays, transportation is convenient and online communication is faster. As long as we are not separated by death, there is still hope of meeting each other after separation.
In fact, it’s not that many people have no way to see each other again, but that everyone knows in their hearts that we all lack a reason to meet.
The deliberate invitation after so many years is suspicious, and the polite greeting is chilling. No one wants to let the reunion of old friends end like this.
If there are still old friends who take the initiative to send greetings, and there are long-lost classmates waiting for you to attend, don't be so anxious to refuse, and don't say anything that will make you regret.
Between people, it can be said that "when you see each other, you become older, and when you see each other, you become less young." If you still have the opportunity to say hello, you must cherish it and don't wait until goodbye becomes the final result.
The saddest thing is that I know you are leaving, and I also know that you will never come back. This time is goodbye forever.
Therefore, treat the encounter well and say goodbye well so as not to leave any regrets in life.
Don’t ask whether your loved one is good or bad if you are separated.
There must be such a situation. Two people have the attitude of "no contact until death", as if giving this relationship Separated by an invisible mountain, we start to separate from our hearts and will never interact again.
"See him building a tall building, watching him entertain guests." But it doesn't matter whether the building collapses or not. We were just strangers when we met, and there was no trace of hatred.
If you don’t want to see other people’s kindness, in fact, you haven’t completely let go. I always feel that the betrayal and betrayal of the other person back then will be punished sooner or later, and I always wonder about how the other person is doing, waiting for the retribution to come and feel complacent.
People may not have trusted you for a long time, and you have been waiting to see what others do. In fact, the most tormenting thing is your own mind.
It’s not about driving the other person out of your life, but taking the initiative to fade out of the other person’s world. I’m living a good life, and I don’t want to show off. If I’m not living a good life, it has nothing to do with you.
Beloved men, good or bad, all have their own destiny.
The only thing we can do is to forget the people on the other side of the mountain and live our lives.
It is necessary to say goodbye after a long journey. If the person you care about is going to a distant place, don’t forget to advise him to cherish it more and report the good news but also the bad news.
If we never meet again, don't ask about the shortcomings of your beloved. Time will eventually dilute all traces. You may not be able to forget them completely, but at least you won't think of them again.
Let God arrange the fate of meeting each other, we just have to be prepared to meet each other.
A sentence for those who are parting, "I am living a good life, and I hope you are too.
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