Sometimes it seems that I have taken many detours, but I don't know what is more suitable for me until I try.
Yesterday was the first day of my official account on WeChat, and I received encouragement from many friends. They all say that Lolo is back, which makes my heart particularly warm. This time, I decided to start over. So what did I do in the first two months?
A few months ago, I really fell in love with calligraphy. I often practice every day, and my hands are calluses. Sometimes I practice calligraphy until midnight, but I enjoy this flowing state and don't feel tired.
I think if I put my heart and soul into one thing, I will certainly gain something, and it is true. In the past two months, my calligraphy has made remarkable progress.
Jiushen chatted with me and asked me if I wanted to be a calligraphy teacher. Work is also easier than I am now. Generally, there are classes in the afternoon, and there is no class to go to work. The advantage is that you can have a lot of time to practice calligraphy. The only drawback is the low salary, haha, to be honest, it's very exciting.
But I really like his calligraphy and especially appreciate his talent. Do what you like and do it to the extreme. I still remember when he told me that 19, he practiced a refill every day, which made me feel ashamed that I didn't work hard enough.
I've thought it over. At present, many teaching and training industries in Shenzhen are not particularly good because of the easy situation, and some will eat dirt. Moreover, I have already applied for the driving test, and it is risky to resign to work rashly.
I am also a beginner in hard pen, and I have to learn writing brush. It seems that all these things need time and a lot of practice, and they can't be learned in a day or two.
I have obviously reduced my time in these two months? After spending my reading time, I seldom communicate in the community, as if I were isolated from the world, folding a lot of group chats and information, just wanting to do one thing well. However, I found that after reading less, I still felt anxious. I felt that I had less time to think and there were some problems in communication. Only then did I understand that reading is a particularly important thing.
By chance, I watched the teacher's live broadcast, and I understood that the teacher said that the person who bought his writing class could provide a private question and answer for one year, and those who were dissatisfied with buying his writing class could also apply for a refund within three days. I boldly talked to him about it.
I told him my confusion, and he told me such a way, that is to write down:
The advantages of 10 practicing calligraphy and the disadvantages of 10 not practicing calligraphy.
The advantages of 10 writing and the disadvantages of 10 not writing.
I finally did what the teacher said. When I wrote about the disadvantages of not writing, I only wrote one, that is, it took time.
Then I seriously thought about it. What can I do without spending time? For example, when you go to work, you can sell yourself for one month at a time, and the boss will pay you a monthly salary. You can only sell it once in 8 hours a day and earn it once.
And writing can sell for the same time over and over again. For example, you spent a year writing a book, sold it for 10 years, and earned royalties for 10 years, which is equivalent to selling it for 10 years in the year you wrote the book.
For example, Zhou Zuoluo wrote a book "Learn to Write". He used the contents of the book to start his own writing class in the form of courses, and he also earned other income. This is also the case.
Therefore, if you want to grow up quickly, improve your communication and expression skills and help your main sales business, you still need to read more and write more. After all, if a person can't even do his main business well, there will be certain problems in other aspects.
I closed my heart in two months. It's wrong to ignore everything, and I don't exercise much. I feel that my state is not very good, I often stay up late to practice calligraphy, and my mental state is very poor.
But through this incident, I understand a truth:
The door is too tight. I seem to have won, but I missed the opportunity to try new things!
The pockets are too tight. It seems that money has not been spent, but in fact, the opportunity for money to come in has been missed. ...
Persist in learning, growing and changing yourself, and everyone's life will be different. This era is an era of "letting a hundred flowers blossom". It is not who can blossom, but who is the most vivid and distinctive among the flowers. ?
Cognition: more important than diligence;
Trend: more important than hard work;
Direction: more important than method.
If you go the wrong way, it's no use trying to run, but if you choose the right direction and take action, you will succeed!
Practicing regular script also improves my patience in doing things by myself, which is also a very good habit. Practicing calligraphy is more about practicing the heart. This is not a bad thing. The problem is that I wanted too much and didn't plan my time well.
I didn't write for two months, but only did one thing, which made me find that our life is more like a system and should be multi-dimensional development. Should include health, family, friends, career, entertainment and so on. ...
If you don't know how to export and share, it's hard for others to notice you.
Continuous output is essential. Not listening to things outside the window will only derail you and society. Try to go out and keep up with the times, and there may be unexpected surprises.
Rome was not built in a day, knowledge was not learned in a day, things were not done in a day, and money was not earned in a day.
Life is a marathon, and health is the most important thing to finish the marathon. It seems hard to practice calligraphy often staying up late, but it is impossible to pay attention to your health.
Although I made a trial and error for 2 months, I also reflected on this matter in time, found my own shortcomings and corrected them in time.
2022 has passed 1/2, so you need to read more and write more in the second half of the year. I hope there will be greater progress by the end of the year.
Well,
A new day,
Come on (_? )?
final
About the author: I am Luo Luo, a lifelong learning practitioner who gets up at 5: 30 every day to exercise reading and writing.
In the constant update, I recorded my personal growth, resumption and reading comprehension.
Vision: to be a writer with temperature and influence life with life.
Favorite sentence: we will all lose this short life in the end. You might as well be bold, love someone, climb a mountain and pursue a dream.